People do change in time - well known to all of us. But do we seriously pay a heed on this? We give opinion or judgements on someone who we knew may be 10 years ago and now has mere contacts. This is not only true about negative traits but positive too. If I happened to know a guy of my school and we were pretty close but don't have much contact now, comes up one day, I would treat him the same way I did in my school days. But things might have changed, he might have changed, the changed might occurred to his thinking. Taking something for granted may be the worst we can do to someone based on his/her past encounter with us, same is true in positive way too. If someone wants opinion about someone I used to know ten years back, I might not be the right person to have the answer. Because the one decade might put a thick layer of dust on the particular guy's positive or negative traits I'd be saying. The same guy who was full of life that time, can be just another disgusted-about- everything kind of person now. So, to me judging someone I knew many years back is a big no no! What about you?
A little heads up
The Blogorama is collection of my daily blog. Whereas category "Things made my life awesome" talks about my past wonderful experiences in an ascending order, "Now in my mind" says the issues I like my opinion on. "Life, in making" is recently started daily log (not so daily!), "Meditation" is something I come back so often, thought that would interest YOU too. Well, that sums it up (almost).
A constant dreamer, believe this is not the end of the world and try to make changes in my own life constantly. Life sometimes went hard and strict-my life's choices would determine whether I have taken them as lessons or punishment.
If you think someone else is the problem and is not letting you do certain things, that implies you perceive yourself a victim. Being victim is letting the person win. If you really want to make a statement: Ignore him.
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